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Tuesday, September 29, 2009
Le Drive-By Tourism* in LA

Where: Los Angeles
When: Labor Day Weekend
Duration: 2.5 Days
Who: Three adults
Who else: Two children under the age of three
What: 1 Car
Time: Best. Ever.
Cost: Priceless
Agenda:
- Catch up with old friends
- Meet the munchkins
- See as much of LA as possible - drive-by style with a camera hanging out the side of the car
- See the Hollywood sign to verify it is real and exists (it does)
- Chill with the coolness of James Dean
- Hang out like Vinnie Chase and the boys would, by trespassing his house
- Wear my new summer dress
- In 'n' Out - Double double animal style (hmmmmmmm)
- Witness the site of a baby's first army crawl (adorable)
- Spirituality - Ghandi style
- See celebrity(ies) (Perez Hilton, Kate Perry, Eliza Dushku, Ashley Tisdale)
- See a transformer
Mission:
Accomplished
Livability Index**: 6 months - 1 year
Thank you:
To the best Monkey gang ever for a wonderful time xoxo!!!

First stop Malibu: Paradise Cove Beach Cafe (try the salad with fresh tuna)

Paradise Cove Beach Cafe

Paradise Cove Beach Cafe

Paradise Cove Beach Cafe

Paradise Cove Beach Cafe

Paradise Cove Beach Cafe

Paradise Cove Beach Cafe

Self Realization Fellowship Lake Shrine Temple - Where someone stole a handful of Ghandi's ashes and sent them to LA to rest in this spot...just the way Ghandi would have wanted it.

Self Realization Fellowship Lake Shrine Temple - Someone promised me I would see lots of birds. But there were no birds. Just nature and some ashes.

Self Realization Fellowship Lake Shrine Temple

Self Realization Fellowship Lake Shrine Temple - Remnants of cuteness from moments before

Marilyn Monroe's Resting Place

Variety - The Mecca of LA

Drive by tourism

Urth Cafe - Where Vinnie, me and the boys do brunch

Venice Beach

Venice Beach

Venice Beach - Just like the canals in Italy

Drive-by Venice Beach

Drive-by Venice Beach

Drive-by Venice Beach

Drive-by Venice Beach

Drive-by Venice Beach

Drive-by Venice Beach

Drive-by Venice Beach

Drive-by Venice Beach

Venice Beach Dog

Venice Beach - Barber

Venice Beach - House ad

Venice Beach - Pause for coffee at Intelligencia

Venice Beach - Back on the road again

La Mirage Inn

Hollywood Hills

Hollywood Sign

Ashton Kutcher's restaurant Geisha House

Wax Museum

Kodak Theater - Home of the Oscars

Transformers - More than meets the eye!

Chinese Theater

Entourage Villa

Hills

Greystone Mansion

Greystone Mansion

Greystone Mansion

Greystone Mansion

Greystone Mansion - Construction next door. Probably a new Starbucks or McDonalds

Greystone Mansion

Greystone Mansion

Greystone Mansion

Greystone Mansion

Greystone Mansion

Greystone Mansion

Greystone Mansion

Greystone Mansion

Greystone Mansion

Beverly Hills. 90210.

Drive-by tourism - The Spelling Mansion

Drive-by tourism

Drive-by tourism

Drive-by tourism - Beverly Hills Wilshire Hotel of Pretty Woman fame

Rodeo Drive

Drive-by tourism

Drive-by tourism

Drive-by tourism

Drive-by tourism

Drive-by tourism

Drive-by tourism - Kitson

Drive-by tourism - The Ivy

Drive-by tourism - Kitson

Finally, those birds I was promised, chilling like Vinnie Chase at a traffic light

Perez Hilton - My celebrity sighting
*With the archaic vacation system found in the US, I found it necessary to invent 'drive-by vacationing' - visiting new cities in as little time as possible - in order to see the country in addition to seeing my family in decent incriments. After two days of Boston this summer, I decided that LA and my lovely friends merited my precious three day weekend that marked the end of Summer 2009.
**I have also come to realize that every city I visit that I like, I measure not in terms of stars or thumbs up, but in how much time I would want to live there. I know it's crazy, but I can't stop wanting to live places. It's not something I do consciously, but recently discovered I just simply size up a city and remark "I would live here for 6 months, and I would do it in that neighborhood, in that apartment, where I would buy white furniture and shop at that grocery store". I guess I just can't sit still, and have a never-ending hunger to live in new places all the time. So I've decided to invent the Livability Index, where I rate a city according to how long I would live there. For example, Boston received a comfortable Livability Index of two Summer months. Frankfurt has a rating of -5 months. That's right. I am also pioneering the idea of negatively ratings of cities. Trust me. It makes sense if you've been to Frankfurt.
Friday, September 11, 2009
Le Penny Collector

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My little homeless penny jar is full. I just thought I should let you know, since I’m sure you’ve been wondering what happened to all those pennies over the past two years. They are fine, sitting on my shelf, and ready to get sent to the bank. It’s the weirdest thing, because now that I’ve been picking up pennies off the street for two years, I kind of don’t feel like doing it anymore, but at the same time, I feel really guilty when I don’t. Like I’ll be walking down the street with someone I just met, or I’ll be on a date and I’ll see the penny. And part of me wants to pick it up, honest, but then the other part of me thinks, do I really want to be that first (and only) date who picked up a penny off the street? I mean, would you go out on a second date with someone who would do that? Or is it one of these things where like, I need to just be me, ‘the penny collector’ and the right guy, that knight in shining armor, will love me more because of my strange attraction to homeless coins. Is this one of those kind of life tests? But then, if it is a life test, and I don’t actually want to pick up pennies anymore, then what does that mean? Does it mean that I am a heartless person now? That I’ve changed and lost sight of the greater good? Sigh. This is all very confusing, it’s like I’ve created a monster with this whole penny-business. Whatever, I’m off to the bank, and I’ll just take it from there.
Friday, August 28, 2009
Le Autumn of Janis Joplin

Summertime - Janis Joplin
Dear Janis Joplin,
I discovered you for the first time last week. I was at my new job, listening to music on Imeem.com, and letting it randomly take me from one song to the next, when suddenly you showed up singing 'Summertime' to me. It blew me away like nothing has in a long time, and I was sincerely sad that I've gone 29 years without your music in my life.
The irony of 'Summertime' entering my life at this point is not lost on me. Just as summer comes to an end in New York, and Autumn winds gently take over the hot summer days and nights, you have come to accompany me not only for the changing of the temporal seasons, but also a changing of seasons in my life. Right now, everything feels different than it did before, and I am relieved. And when I say different, I mean that I am right back where I started when I left for New York two years ago, much like the shepherd boy in The Alchemist, I feel like I'm back home after getting lost in the dark for a while. Thankfully, I made it in one piece even though I acquired a few cuts and bruises. Hopefully nothing that will scar, and I'm perpetually optimistic. I have a new job, new people in my life, and almost feel like my old self again. Everyday I watch me come back, and I am delighted. The wind of change that has been wafting for a few months now is in full force, and I am grateful for the beautiful music that it has brought with it.
So thank you, Ms. Joplin, for joining me this Fall, and bringing your guitar solo with you.
Love,
Sabrina
Thursday, June 11, 2009
Le Yogi Sade
Sade - Cherish the Day
I had to smile when I heard Sade in yoga class yesterday. It took me back to this post I made, when I was in Munich listening to Sade and thinking about living in New York. And now here I am and it is nothing like I imagined. In fact, one of the few places where I feel like it's right and all the planets are aligned is in yoga class. The room, the view from the window, the time of day, my teacher Jeffrey and even the other students feel just right. The rest of the time I wander around the city thinking "What am I doing here?" or "Was it worth all the trouble to move here? What for?" or just "Wow".
But in yoga class, all of that is different. Everything makes sense there, even my weirdly flexible, middle eastern, crooked body, which delights in each weird crooked strechy move. As a gym student who once got a D, it is fun to excel at a sport and feel like it comes naturally to me. My favorite poses are the ones are the really twisted bendy ones, and the ones I used to do as a kid for fun, like a shoulder stand with my legs wound around two times. Surrounded by serious grown-ups, it never occured to me that adults would ever do it too.
Yoga is also the one of the few commitments I've been able to make recently. Ever since my break up, this class has been my therapy session, where my mind gets to rest as my body takes over. Everytime Jeffrey would say open your heart (where you point your chest to the sky), I would open as wide as possible so forces from above could heal the broken parts of my heart. It hurt but it also felt nourishing.
And then there's the music; Sade and Thievery Corporation which sometimes come up, and are both artists who I just love.
All in all, I try to take a "yoga view" to my life. Regardless of why I'm here, or if it was right or wrong, now that I'm in New York, I might as well live in the moment, enjoy it to the fullest and remember to breath.
Namaste
Wednesday, June 10, 2009
Le Closure
"Loneliness is not being alone; it's loving others to no avail." - Mario Stefani

Today was a day of closure for me. I had a long overdue talk with my ex in order to understand exactly what happened and why things ended up the way they did. We've had these chats before, but I've always come away feeling confused. But today was different, I got some answers I needed and finally understood what happened.
In some ways I feel like Carrie in the 'Sex and the City' episode where she feels like Barbra Streisand in 'The Way We Were'. That I am the crazy, emotional person who overwhelms Hubbell and he decides he can't handle her. I am relieved and happy that the permanent state of confusion that has plagued me for months has finally come to an end, and I can leave the past behind. And being Barbra/Carrie is not so bad.
After my long discussion, I came home to find a baggage-free apartment, since my undependable landlord was kind enough to help me and put my winter suitcase away where I can't reach. He only left one small bag behind. I smiled, put it away and wrote that one last email I knew I had to write, the period at the end of a sentence.

Today was a day of closure for me. I had a long overdue talk with my ex in order to understand exactly what happened and why things ended up the way they did. We've had these chats before, but I've always come away feeling confused. But today was different, I got some answers I needed and finally understood what happened.
In some ways I feel like Carrie in the 'Sex and the City' episode where she feels like Barbra Streisand in 'The Way We Were'. That I am the crazy, emotional person who overwhelms Hubbell and he decides he can't handle her. I am relieved and happy that the permanent state of confusion that has plagued me for months has finally come to an end, and I can leave the past behind. And being Barbra/Carrie is not so bad.
After my long discussion, I came home to find a baggage-free apartment, since my undependable landlord was kind enough to help me and put my winter suitcase away where I can't reach. He only left one small bag behind. I smiled, put it away and wrote that one last email I knew I had to write, the period at the end of a sentence.


